Birth Trauma Therapy in Ontario

Experience Compassionate Healing and Empowering Support

Not all difficult births are traumatic, but some experiences stay with you in a way that doesn’t fade with time.

You might replay what happened, feel emotional or numb when you think about it, or notice your body reacting before your mind can catch up.

Person receiving compassionate support during birth trauma therapy session in Ontario

Common Experiences After Birth Trauma

  • feeling like “something is still stuck”
  • intrusive memories or flashbacks
  • emotional numbness or detachment
  • anxiety about your body or future pregnancies
  • anger, grief, or sadness that feels unresolved
  • difficulty talking about the birth

How Therapy Helps

We work gently and at your pace to:

  • reconnect with safety and trust in your body
  • process what happened without re-traumatization
  • support your nervous system in settling
  • understand emotional and bodily responses
  • integrate the experience in a way that feels less overwhelming
Trauma-informed counselling for birth trauma using IFS Flash and Rewind techniques

My Approach to Healing

I come to therapy with a background in midwifery. I’ve been in the room when births didn’t go as planned. I’ve seen when interventions happened quickly, when consent felt rushed, when parents left the hospital holding their baby but carrying something heavy they couldn’t name. That experience means I don’t need you to explain what a cascade of interventions feels like, or why a healthy baby doesn’t make the experience less painful. I understand the clinical reality of birth and the emotional aftermath. That dual perspective shapes everything about how I approach birth trauma therapy.

Ongoing birth trauma therapy support helping clients rebuild confidence and wellbeing

Begin with a personalized session to understand your unique experience and establish a foundation for your healing process.

Mother gently holding newborn baby's hand after birth trauma therapy in Ontario

Engage in customized counseling sessions designed to address your specific emotional and psychological needs. My approach incorporates techniques from Rewind, Flash, and Internal Family Systems

Mother holding newborn baby, supported through postpartum and birth trauma recovery with IFS therapy

I provide continuous care to help you build resilience, regain confidence, and foster long-term mental well-being.

Is birth trauma therapy only for emergency births?

No. Birth trauma can follow any birth where you felt scared, unheard, out of control, or unsupported, regardless of the medical outcome. A healthy baby does not mean the experience wasn’t traumatic.

How long does birth trauma therapy take?

This varies depending on the person and the experience. Some people notice meaningful shifts within a few sessions. Others benefit from longer-term work. We discuss this in your first session and revisit it as we go.

Can birth trauma therapy help even if the birth was years ago?

Yes. Trauma doesn’t have an expiry date. Many people seek support years after a difficult birth, sometimes triggered by a new pregnancy or a significant life event.

Do you offer birth trauma therapy across Ontario?

Yes. Virtual sessions are available to anyone in Ontario. In-person sessions are available in London, Ontario.

Is birth trauma therapy covered by insurance?

Many extended health plans cover registered social workers (RSW). I provide receipts you can submit to your insurance provider. Check with your plan directly to confirm your coverage.

IFS therapy and trauma counselling — Alison Bekendam RSW, London Ontario

Ready to Get Started?

If your birth experience still feels present in your body or mind, support can help you begin to shift how it lives in you.